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vendredi 20 septembre 2013

St. Bernadette, Massachusetts Church, Won't Fund Art Museum Because It Supports Gay Marriage

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As many across the country spent June 26 celebrating the Supreme Court's decision to strike down key parts of the federal Defense of Marriage Act, one Massachusetts art museum found itself in hot water with a local parish after publicly supporting marriage equality on its Facebook page.

The Worcester Art Museum posted this simple message of support via Facebook on Wednesday: "Congrats LGBTQ Nation! The Worcester Art Museum is proud and happy to host your wedding!"

But the museum's decision to woo the gay and lesbian market did not sit well with the Rev. Stephen M. Gemme, the pastor at St. Bernadette Parish in Northboro, Mass., who told The Telegram & Gazette that his parish would no longer provide financial support to WAM.

"We're simply not going to support them institutionally as in the past," Gemme told the outlet. "We're just following the lead of the diocese on that."

After the Supreme Court decision was announced, Bishop Robert McManus of the Diocese Worcester released a statement calling the ruling a "tragic error of judgement for the American people," according to MassLive. However, the diocese denied issuing any instructions to individual parishes regarding gay marriage supporters.

“I would suspect that someone at the parish is making a broad interpretation of some other statement by the Bishop which stated the Catholic Church does not support gay marriage," Raymond Delisle, the diocese's director of communications, told news blog GoLocalWorcester. "If the parish felt that their membership was in part supporting the promotion of gay marriage I would think that they are within their rights to not continue that membership, but it is their decision."

St. Bernadette Parish did not immediately return a request for comment from The Huffington Post.

WAM spokeswoman Monica Elefterion told HuffPost that no one from St. Bernadette's had contacted the museum about funding, adding that the only known record of support from St. Bernadette Parish was a 2012 contribution of $100.

GoLocalWorcester notes that WAM has welcomed same-sex couples since gay marriage was legalized in the state in 2004, an assertion confirmed to HuffPost by Elefterion.

"We pride ourselves on being a welcoming institution: both online and at the museum," Elefterion said in an email. "We’ve been fortunate to celebrate with the many couples who have been married at the museum in the past. We look forward to celebrating with those who plan on marrying here in the future."

(h/t Raw Story)

mardi 16 juillet 2013

'Mistresses': Savi Feels Guilty Because She Cheated, Gets No Sympathy From April (VIDEO)

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Mistresses Savi Guilt 130610 'Mistresses': Savi Consumed With Guilt After Cheating On Her Husband

There's a lot of cheating going on -- appropriately for a show titled "Mistresses" -- in ABC's steamy summer soap, but only two episodes in and one of the women is ready to give it all up. Savi (Alyssa Milano) immediately regretted sleeping with her coworker. Sure, things have been tough at home between her and her husband and their frustrations conceiving, but she knew it was wrong of her to do.

She even contemplated telling her husband what she'd done, but Karen advised her to take a beat and first try and figure out why this happened. Savi was so overwhelmed with guilt, though, she couldn't stop spilling it to her friends. Perhaps opening up to April -- who was reeling over the possibility that her dead husband may have cheated, and fathered a child in that relationship -- wasn't the best idea. Especially after April had just laid out how abhorrent she found cheating in general.

“You should’ve kept that to yourself," April said before storming out. "Really."

Buddy TV was on April's side in this one, dead husband or not. They said she had the right response: no one should be okay with cheating. TVLine noted that Savi's secret is eating her alive, as she's only opened up to two people so far about it. And with her husband trying to communicate better at home, that will only make her guilt worse.

Of course, there may not be any viewers around to find out. Last week's premiere of "Mistresses" had mixed results in the ratings. While it had slightly more viewers than last season's "Glass House" reality flop, it was down 25% in the 18-49 demographic that advertisers care about.

The drama continues on "Mistresses," Mondays at 10 p.m. ET on ABC.

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lundi 10 juin 2013

John Thompson: Turnaround School Ignores Misbehavior All Over Again because "That's What We Do"

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Sara Neufeld's first Hechinger Report article on Newark's Quitman Street Renew School, "A Newark School Prepares - Again - to Reinvent Itself," began with Principal Erskine Glover's belief that weeding out subpar instruction is the single most important factor in school improvement. Now, Neufeld's "Perseverance in a Newark School Despite Mid-Year Teacher Turnover," reports that half of Quitman's core middle school teachers have left, including some of Glover's most promising, handpicked teachers.

The last straw for some teachers was the January decision to demand more work of teachers for an additional hourly wage comparable to a fast food job. But, middle school teachers had already been worn down by the continued tolerance of chronic misbehavior.

A year ago, Glover said that only one or two of his 47 8th graders had significant behavioral issues and most didn't skip school. Only seven were "truly prepared" for high school. That raises a question about Glover's definition of "significant." Neufeld described one of their classes where a dozen middle school boys "trickle into their English class over a 15-minute period, alternately slamming the door behind them and leaving again to use the bathroom. ... One boy comes in playfully hitting another; the teacher kicks them out. ..."

Neufeld described a class with no violence in the room but one student is singing and one "who has been trying to work complains about all the door-slamming. He puts down his pen and goes to talk to a friend working on a computer at the back of the room. The screen shuffles between a grammar assignment ('Which sentence uses correct capitalization?') and NBA standings."

A year later, after telling students that their behavior contributed to the exodus of teachers, Glover says, "Some teachers are going to be upset that this child is throwing footballs in the halls or running the halls. I get that. I love you still."

I suspect the problem is not simply Glover's failure to take classroom disruptions seriously. I suspect the problem is that he is articulating a normative position of school leaders working in urban systems that refuse to address chronic misbehavior. Quitman is one of six Newark's "renew" schools that receive extra funding and the power to recruit and select their own staffs. As of now, one of those schools lost its principal during the year. The others have not had turnover like Quitman, but Neufeld reports that they still face challenges over the quality of instruction.

I would not be surprised to learn that other principals face a pattern similar to Glover's. He says that progress is being made in the primary grades, but the teachers' energy has waned in third through fifth grades.

Not surprisingly, the blame game has taken off. The real villain, however, is the claim that the willpower of superstar teachers is enough to reverse the legacies of generational poverty.

I have no problem with a principal claiming that improved teaching can turnaround schools. In my experience, administrators are socialized into the naïve belief that teachers can be deputized as the agents for undoing the effects of extreme poverty. It is hard to understand why systems still assert that good instruction is enough to drive improvement of inner city middle schools, even before a respectful learning culture is established.

But, I have a problem with Glover letting his ideology slip into his words to students after chastising them for their behavior. It is great that the principal expresses his love for the students, but then he adds, "And Monday we're going to come back and do it all over. That's what we do."

Until principals and their bosses understand that this cycle of chronic misbehavior must be broken, teachers will continue to give their all, cry themselves to sleep at night, and quit in exhaustion. To his credit, Glover understands the stress. He asks a young teacher how many times she had cried over the job. "'How did you know I'm crying?'" he recalls. "And I said, 'Everybody goes through it. ... That's the nature of our game. ...'"

Schools like Quitman are unlikely to improve until administrators understand that the nature of the game must change. The children are listening as the adults fight. As long as teachers are blamed for chronic disorder, the quality of classroom instruction will suffer. By the time students are in middle school, students understand enough about the way the system works - or doesn't work - so that teens know that they are unlikely to be held responsible for their behavior.

On the other hand, shifting the blame game towards punitive actions against students is not the answer. I hope that the lesson emerges from Quitman, and similar turnarounds, that the better approach is to invest in socio-emotional supports, teaching children to be students, and thus laying the foundation for high-quality instruction. We must express our love for students and still insist that they comport themselves properly. I will be looking forward towards the rest of Neufeld's series for support for either my view or for the Quitman's principal's view on school improvement.

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mercredi 29 mai 2013

Clean Your Refrigerator Gasket Because It Can Be One Dirty Spot (VIDEO)

There are quite a few germ hot spots in your kitchen, but if you clean the refrigerator gasket, you could eliminate one. According to Prevention, every time the door opens, you risk spreading mold from this spot -- yikes! Luckily, there's an easy solution to this problem.

The DIY Network suggests to first scrub the area with warm water and soap. Then, mix four tablespoons of bleach with one quart of water and wipe the area down to get rid of the mold. Finally, lightly cover the seal with body lotion to help keep it soft.

Watch the video above for the full how-to guide, and be sure to head over to Prevention for more information.

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